Hypocrites. Everywhere. People wants others to respect their opinions, but when others do the same, they say, stop insulting me and everyone has the right to show off their own opinion.
Sadly, no. No one has the right or the freedom to post their own opinion. Whatever you say and whatever you do, people will judge and read, people will ridicule or agree, people will thumbs up/down.
The saying, "everyone is entitled to their own opinion" isn't false. However, once your personal opnion becomes a little too not personal, aka public, then the security/excuse of having a personal opinion isn't viable anymore.
Since the comment has been willingly made to the public, it's,
1. Not a personal opinion.
2. Open to other's criticism.
3. How others will judge you.
People who use the word personal opinion have no idea how the word "PERSONAL" works. Personal, you keep to yourself. Not personal if you are telling others. Please don't make others cry.
(If you don't want to sound like an ass, use IMHO aka 'In my humble opinion'. No matter how unhumble you are, it sounds classy and gets you off a better start.)
As I said, once a comment goes public, public in case you guys didn't know, means more than you is reading the thing, it is open to be criticism, good bad or the plain rude, people will read and people will judge.
The first thing, or only thing that you post, will make people judge you. Everybody judges from time to time, even when they think they aren't and tell others not to. It's human instinct. Like how a guy who likes to skips class and play the fool are considered stupid and how students who diligently do their homework are considered the 'smartest'.
Likewise, if you post, "I'm glad who isn't in this video! I can watch" people will judge you as a hater, even if you just mildly dislike that particular person, and LOVE the others. Instead of this, why not post,
"I'm glad who, who and who is in this video, I can watch!" will cause you to be seen in a more positive light.
Don't deny other's opinions of hate if you are the one that hated first. Yes I'm saying literally hate. Nothing to do with criticism. An example of hate would be, "I hope who can quit the whatever, their videos will be much better" or " I don't like him, please don't like him be part of you guys."
THAT is a classic example of what people think is criticism, where it doesn't help the content owner at all, and expect them to change based on their own selfish opinion.
Just go away. No I'm not asking you to die or whatever, I'm just asking you, to go away. We don't need you here, no one's gonna learn anything from you or your words. All you do is make people sad. And we don't want people to be sad. So please, please, please just go away.
Content creators are tired, from their own lives and having to entertain us, it's their job. Give them some space to relax. Leave them sweet comments so they will know that what they do is worth their time. The best feedback is always positive.
The main point of this is... If you dislike negative feedback and don't want people to just anyhow scold you. BE POSITIVE. Be helpful, give adequate criticism, try to start off happy and then it's better sounding, refrain from most vulgarities, simply, try and leave comments that encourage.
And don't be RUDE.
If you can't even abide to these guidelines. Then don't say anything. I'm begging you. Don't hurt people. Especially those who you respect. They are people as well. Don't make decisions for them.
Please. Don't. Spread. Hate.
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