#Yesallwomen.
#Notallmen.
Twitter has been showing up with all these tweets. Yes this post is late. And yes I'm quite sorry.
The main spark of this entire thing came from one guy who killed because he couldn't get a girlfriend. Despo much?
So girls and "feminist" guys vs men who were sexist/men who think they shouldn't be blamed. (quotation marks on the word feminist since this word shouldn't exist at all. Aren't we all equal?)
Some comments were extremely rude. Here are some examples. E.g "if some girls gave him pussy he wouldn't have killed", "just agree on being his boyfriend and those people wouldn't have died." and " that man just wanted some pussy, just give it to him sheesh." And what were they tryna get by saying all this? Yeap you got that right, they were blaming the girls for the deaths of innocent people, not the killer, not the ones who didn't teach hom the right morals. But the girls. Those who declined to be the guy's boyfriend. Those girls that wanted to have their own choice.
You can say I am distorting the message. I may be, but then you'll be saying almost more than half of the females and the few males offended at this post are distorting the message as well.
This caused huge arguments, that females were not to be treated like toys and have feelings of their own. As a boy, I didn't really know much of the problems of what my sisters experienced. My sisters would tell me how they would hold the 999 button just for a short trip downstairs. I was skeptical and said they were probably thinking too much. But after reading the tweets from #YesAllWomen , I was shocked, so it wasn't just my sisters experiencing it, women all around the world were facing problems as well.
Some had to carry alarms. Some put their fingers on the 999 button everytime they went out. Most of them were given pepper spray on their 16/18th birthday. Girls have to fear everything, don't tell them they are just being paranoid, cause it's not helping. Ask them why they have to do this. And most will say in case they get assaulted sexually.
Most men would say, not all men are gonna rape you. It's bad to stereotype all men as gonna rape you. The problem isn't that the girls are being "judgemental betches" the truth is that things like this happen. Girls are taught not to get raped.
That's just wrong. Seriously? We shouldn't be teaching girls how not to get raped. We should tell guys not to rape. If a girl says no, it's no. Don't attack her or drug her for your own use. Ask how many guys have to carry pepper spray in case they get raped? None, if any, it's only small number.
Girl have mental trauma over that they might get assaulted one day. That's creepy.
Girls are told.
1. Dress well, like no cleavage or whatever, as it's asking guys to rape you.
2. If a guy harasses you, say you have a boyfriend already.
3. Boys will be boys.
All this are wrong!
1. What one girls dresses does NOT give you permission to rape her. It's her body, not yours. What she dresses is for you to look at only. Even if she is naked, she is still not asking you to touch her.
2. Are you teaching girls that the only way to say no, is having to resort to using another guy? It's almost like... You are saying guys respect the presence of other guys than a girl's own rights.
3. Boys will be boys. What kind of logic is that? The only time boys will be boys is physically like in their body shape. That's that. If boys are physical abusive, then that's a problem! Get out of that relationship! Don't trust that all boys will be boys just because you are have been told to forget abuse from them.
The only way you will have consent. Is through someone's voice. If they say no. Then that's that. Don't disrespect a girl's voice. A women brought you to this world, so you have no right to disrespect one.
(or you can be like Sanji, a gentlemen that gawks at ladies but will NOT hit a lady even if his life is at stake)
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I come in 2 bits 3 pieces.